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Attending a Catholic Service
If you worry about attending a Catholic service because you have never been to one before, Pellerin Funeral Homes can offer some guidance before you attend.
For people who are getting ready to attend the service of a loved one, having a clear idea of the kind of service is essential. This is particularly important if your loved one wanted to have a religious service like a Catholic one. Catholic services are conservative, and you want to be sure that you know what to expect. To help you prepare for attending the service, there are some things that directors of funeral homes in Cecilia, LA want you to remember.
You want to keep in mind that there are three main parts to most Catholic services. The process begins with the wake or viewing. This allows people to offer each other comfort and to recite the rosary together. The casket is usually present but it is not always open. The next step in the process is the funeral mass. The funeral mass takes place in the church where the person received sacraments throughout life. It can be a long service because the priest who leads it usually offers communion. After the funeral mass, the body is taken to the place of burial where there can be a short graveside service.
Be sure to keep in mind that the service is a conservative one that requires you dress somberly. You want to consider wearing black or other dark colors, and you also want to be sure to remember to be respectful of the religious aspects of the service. You do not have to take part in communion, if you do not want to, but you should still sit, stand, and kneel, when called to do so.
It can be important to send a sympathy gift to the family. This is something that can be crucial because it lets them know they are not on their own and that you have them in your thoughts. Sympathy cards are a great option, because they let you send the person a customized message of condolence. You also want to consider flowers. If you want to send flower arrangements, be sure you consider doing so from a florist. Include a card to let the family know who sent them. If you would like to make a donation in the deceased’s honor, be sure that you ask the family about this before doing so.
These are some important things you want to remember when getting ready to start the process of attending the service for a loved one who died. A Catholic service can be beautiful, and it can offer comfort, so do consider attending even if you have never been to one before. You can learn more about these kinds of services or you can get the kind of help you need for making funerary arrangements by reaching out to a Cecilia, LA funeral home like us. We are here to answer all of the concerns you may have about this and more. Call us now or visit us today to learn more about all of the options we can offer.
Jim is originally from Orange, Texas and attended Northwestern State University while on a golf scholarship. Jim graduated in 1993 with a bachelor’s degree in Business Administration.
After graduation, he returned to Texas, where he started a family and worked for an industrial transportation warehouse.
In 2002, Jim received a degree in Applied Sciences from the Dallas Institute of Funeral Sciences and returned to Natchitoches. He has been professionally employed as a licensed Funeral Director and Embalmer since obtaining this degree.
Jim joined the staff at Blanchard-St. Denis in March 2008 and became General Manager in 2017. Jim’s level of care for the families he serves is shown everyday by his strong work ethic and his compassion for others at one of the most difficult times in their life.
He is married to Laura Flores and together they are owners of a local restaurant. In his spare time, Jim enjoys spending time with his family and occasionally playing golf with his son, Joe.
Dawn Slaughter has been a resident of Natchitoches since 1994. She moved to Natchitoches from Bossier City to attend Northwestern State University, but South Louisiana will always be “home”. Her dad spent 23 years in the Air Force, during which time she was fortunate enough to live abroad for 3 years and traveled to several countries. She met her husband Jason, at NSU. They have three beautiful daughters, Madison, Morgan, and Mikayla. In 2011, she graduated from Northwestern.
She was a stay-at-home mom for many years. Her husband has subcontracted for cemetery service for the funeral home for over 20 years. She began working at Blanchard-St. Denis Funeral Home in November of 2018 as the office administrator and received her funeral director’s license in July of 2019. Dawn takes pride in helping the families of Natchitoches during some of their most difficult times, and helping them prepare their final arrangements to lessen the grief for their families.
Dawn is very active in her church, teaching her little third graders in Sunday School and singing in the choir at Christmas time. She is a member of the Les Amies Service Organization and enjoys volunteering in the community. In her spare time, she enjoys spending time with her family, cooking and quilting. She is her daughter’s biggest fan in all of their pursuits.
Hunter was raised in Many, Louisiana, he graduated from Negreet High School in 2013. He then obtained an associate degree in applied sciences from Dallas institute of Funeral Service to practice Funeral Directing and Embalming.
In December of 2022, Hunter joined the staff of Blanchard-St. Denis Funeral Home. Through Hunter’s 10 years of service in the funeral industry he learned how much he loves helping families through the toughest time of their life. Hunter takes pride in treating each family he cares for like his own.
Hunter has two children, Anniston Kate and Lawson. In his spare time, he enjoys fishing, hunting, watching any kind of sport, but most of all spending time his children and family.
Tommy started his career with Blanchard St. Denis working part-time. He joined our funeral home full-time in 2011 after retiring from the United States Postal Service with 37 years of service.
Tommy is a lifelong resident of Natchitoches where he graduated from St. Mary’s High School in 1970. He furthered his education by receiving an associate degree from Northwestern State University.
He is married to Lisa McClellan. They have 4 children between them and are fondly known as Pepaw and Nana to 8 wonderful grandchildren. Tommy loves the game of golf and plays every chance he gets. He is also a wonderful cook and enjoys doing so for his family.
Tommy is passionate about caring for and seeing the needs of others. He takes pride in helping the people in his community during one of the most difficult times in their life.
Steve was born in Natchitoches and raised in Montgomery. When he graduated from high school, he attended NSU and studied mechanical arts.
He began his career with Gifford Hill and Company, a major construction supply company. While working full-time Steve attended the Shreveport Beauty Academy at night and received his license for makeup and hair styling. After 30 years he retired from Gifford Hill as Regional Manager for the Southwest region.
Steve began working for Blanchard St. Denis in 2012. His new endeavor with our firm gave him the opportunity to work in funeral service, a field he had always wanted to be a part of. Steve loves working side by side with the team at Blanchard St. Denis and helping families after the loss of a loved one.
Steve is married to Phyllis Kinkle Stroud, they have 3 wonderful daughters and 6 beautiful grandchildren.
Anthony lives in Natchitoches. He was born and reared on Cane River and went to school at St. Joseph Elementary and St. Matthew High School in Melrose.
He is married to Janet and they have 2 sons, 6 grandchildren and 3 great-grandchildren.
Anthony retired in 2006 from L&L Automotive which he co-owned with his brother. He then opened Anthony’s Auto, selling used cars. He also helps Janet with her catering business, Tatae’s. Anthony joined the team at Blanchard St. Denis in 2020.
Anthony Loves traveling with Janet, spending time with family and talking about cars with his sons and grandsons.
