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Common Grief Questions
There are a lot of questions you might have about your grieving process as you go down the road toward healing. Asking them is never a bad idea and the professionals can help.
Grief is something everyone goes through at some point or another. If a loved one passes on and your family decides to have cremation services in St. Martinville, LA for them, you might go through some questions in your mind. Remember that grieving takes its time and there’s no right or wrong way to go through it. You are unique, just like your loved one was, and so was your relationship with them. Your experience is going to be different than others. But here are some of the things you might find yourself asking.
Why Don’t I Feel Better Yet?
Once the cremation service and memorial are over, and perhaps even after you put your loved one in their final resting place, you might wonder why you haven’t started to feel better yet. You gave your loved one what they needed and that makes some people feel relief and a peace of mind. But it’s not going to erase the fact that your loved one is gone and you are going to miss them. It’s okay if you don’t feel better right away. Grieving is a process and even if you see others feeling better or acting normal, that doesn’t mean you have to be in that position just yet.
What’s Wrong With My Grieving Process?
Nothing. You grieve how you grieve and others do it the way that works for them. As long as you are acting in a healthy manner and not being self-destructive or hurtful to others, then there’s nothing wrong with the way you are processing things. It isn’t going to be easy no matter what you do, but the way you do things is all yours and it’s important to follow what you feel is best for your own process.
Where Can I Find The Support I Need?
When you are grieving, you will likely turn to your family members and friends for support first. The funeral home professionals will also be there for you. And they have grief support resources that can allow you to get the extra help you might need. You can get connected with grief counselors and support groups or even websites that might be helpful.
How Can I Make Progress?
You are going to want to see yourself taking steps in the right direction, toward healing, but those steps and the progress you see may be different from you than others. Try a few things, like slowly going back to your regular schedule, putting some new routines into place, and other such things and that can help you see slow progress in the right ways.
It’s hard to get through cremation services in St.Martinville, LA for a loved one, but the grieving that happens during and after can feel even harder. The professionals at Pellerin Funeral Homes are here to help you with the final services you want to plan for your loved one. You can also ask us questions about grieving and use our list of resources if you need some extra guidance along the way.
Jim is originally from Orange, Texas and attended Northwestern State University while on a golf scholarship. Jim graduated in 1993 with a bachelor’s degree in Business Administration.
After graduation, he returned to Texas, where he started a family and worked for an industrial transportation warehouse.
In 2002, Jim received a degree in Applied Sciences from the Dallas Institute of Funeral Sciences and returned to Natchitoches. He has been professionally employed as a licensed Funeral Director and Embalmer since obtaining this degree.
Jim joined the staff at Blanchard-St. Denis in March 2008 and became General Manager in 2017. Jim’s level of care for the families he serves is shown everyday by his strong work ethic and his compassion for others at one of the most difficult times in their life.
He is married to Laura Flores and together they are owners of a local restaurant. In his spare time, Jim enjoys spending time with his family and occasionally playing golf with his son, Joe.
Dawn Slaughter has been a resident of Natchitoches since 1994. She moved to Natchitoches from Bossier City to attend Northwestern State University, but South Louisiana will always be “home”. Her dad spent 23 years in the Air Force, during which time she was fortunate enough to live abroad for 3 years and traveled to several countries. She met her husband Jason, at NSU. They have three beautiful daughters, Madison, Morgan, and Mikayla. In 2011, she graduated from Northwestern.
She was a stay-at-home mom for many years. Her husband has subcontracted for cemetery service for the funeral home for over 20 years. She began working at Blanchard-St. Denis Funeral Home in November of 2018 as the office administrator and received her funeral director’s license in July of 2019. Dawn takes pride in helping the families of Natchitoches during some of their most difficult times, and helping them prepare their final arrangements to lessen the grief for their families.
Dawn is very active in her church, teaching her little third graders in Sunday School and singing in the choir at Christmas time. She is a member of the Les Amies Service Organization and enjoys volunteering in the community. In her spare time, she enjoys spending time with her family, cooking and quilting. She is her daughter’s biggest fan in all of their pursuits.
Hunter was raised in Many, Louisiana, he graduated from Negreet High School in 2013. He then obtained an associate degree in applied sciences from Dallas institute of Funeral Service to practice Funeral Directing and Embalming.
In December of 2022, Hunter joined the staff of Blanchard-St. Denis Funeral Home. Through Hunter’s 10 years of service in the funeral industry he learned how much he loves helping families through the toughest time of their life. Hunter takes pride in treating each family he cares for like his own.
Hunter has two children, Anniston Kate and Lawson. In his spare time, he enjoys fishing, hunting, watching any kind of sport, but most of all spending time his children and family.
Tommy started his career with Blanchard St. Denis working part-time. He joined our funeral home full-time in 2011 after retiring from the United States Postal Service with 37 years of service.
Tommy is a lifelong resident of Natchitoches where he graduated from St. Mary’s High School in 1970. He furthered his education by receiving an associate degree from Northwestern State University.
He is married to Lisa McClellan. They have 4 children between them and are fondly known as Pepaw and Nana to 8 wonderful grandchildren. Tommy loves the game of golf and plays every chance he gets. He is also a wonderful cook and enjoys doing so for his family.
Tommy is passionate about caring for and seeing the needs of others. He takes pride in helping the people in his community during one of the most difficult times in their life.
Steve was born in Natchitoches and raised in Montgomery. When he graduated from high school, he attended NSU and studied mechanical arts.
He began his career with Gifford Hill and Company, a major construction supply company. While working full-time Steve attended the Shreveport Beauty Academy at night and received his license for makeup and hair styling. After 30 years he retired from Gifford Hill as Regional Manager for the Southwest region.
Steve began working for Blanchard St. Denis in 2012. His new endeavor with our firm gave him the opportunity to work in funeral service, a field he had always wanted to be a part of. Steve loves working side by side with the team at Blanchard St. Denis and helping families after the loss of a loved one.
Steve is married to Phyllis Kinkle Stroud, they have 3 wonderful daughters and 6 beautiful grandchildren.
Anthony lives in Natchitoches. He was born and reared on Cane River and went to school at St. Joseph Elementary and St. Matthew High School in Melrose.
He is married to Janet and they have 2 sons, 6 grandchildren and 3 great-grandchildren.
Anthony retired in 2006 from L&L Automotive which he co-owned with his brother. He then opened Anthony’s Auto, selling used cars. He also helps Janet with her catering business, Tatae’s. Anthony joined the team at Blanchard St. Denis in 2020.
Anthony Loves traveling with Janet, spending time with family and talking about cars with his sons and grandsons.
