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Working While Grieving
Most people do not get enough time to grieve before returning to work. Learn some tips from Pellerin Funeral Homes to help you manage returning to work better.
Grieving can take a long time and not everyone has the privilege of waiting until their grief has passed before returning to work. If you have lost a loved one and are struggling with grief, returning to work may be the last thing you want to think about. It is important, however, to have some idea of what you can expect when you get back to work. If you are still grieving, there are tips that providers of cremation services in Breaux Bridge, LA want you to know.
Before you return to work, you want to know if there are any policies in place for people who are grieving. Some companies do offer benefits, including things like therapy sessions. You want to take some time to ask about this from your employer. You can also reach out to human resources to see what your options are.
It is a good idea to reach out to coworkers when you return to work. You do not want to be isolated with the grief you feel, and that can happen if you do not let anyone know what you are going through. It is likely that there is someone at your place of work that has gone through a similar situation and they may be able to offer some guidance on how to manage work while still grieving. This is an important part up coming to terms with the loss, so be sure to reach out to your coworkers.
Just because you have returned to work you are not necessarily past the worst of the grief. Sometimes people get confused about returning to their routine and they may think that they are through the loss when that is not the case. You have to still make time for yourself and for the grief you feel. Do not expect that returning to work will magically make the grief disappear.
You also want to remember that grief comes in waves. You may feel fine for a few hours and then get a surge of sadness. That is completely normal energy is something you should expect. If you can, take a break when you feel this surge of grief. If that is not possible, you at least want to take a few deep breaths to steady yourself.
Losing a loved one can interfere with every part of your life, including work. if you have to return to work before you are through the grieving process, it is essential that you keep these tips in mind. Reach out to HR to find out if there are any benefits for people who are grieving and do let your coworkers know what you were going through. If you still have questions about how to deal with grief or if you want to start making arrangements for your loved one, you can reach out to a Breaux Bridge, LA cremation services provider like us. Our team is here to answer any questions you may have and to help you with any arrangements you have to make. Call us now or visit us today to speak with one of our experts.
Jim is originally from Orange, Texas and attended Northwestern State University while on a golf scholarship. Jim graduated in 1993 with a bachelor’s degree in Business Administration.
After graduation, he returned to Texas, where he started a family and worked for an industrial transportation warehouse.
In 2002, Jim received a degree in Applied Sciences from the Dallas Institute of Funeral Sciences and returned to Natchitoches. He has been professionally employed as a licensed Funeral Director and Embalmer since obtaining this degree.
Jim joined the staff at Blanchard-St. Denis in March 2008 and became General Manager in 2017. Jim’s level of care for the families he serves is shown everyday by his strong work ethic and his compassion for others at one of the most difficult times in their life.
He is married to Laura Flores and together they are owners of a local restaurant. In his spare time, Jim enjoys spending time with his family and occasionally playing golf with his son, Joe.
Dawn Slaughter has been a resident of Natchitoches since 1994. She moved to Natchitoches from Bossier City to attend Northwestern State University, but South Louisiana will always be “home”. Her dad spent 23 years in the Air Force, during which time she was fortunate enough to live abroad for 3 years and traveled to several countries. She met her husband Jason, at NSU. They have three beautiful daughters, Madison, Morgan, and Mikayla. In 2011, she graduated from Northwestern.
She was a stay-at-home mom for many years. Her husband has subcontracted for cemetery service for the funeral home for over 20 years. She began working at Blanchard-St. Denis Funeral Home in November of 2018 as the office administrator and received her funeral director’s license in July of 2019. Dawn takes pride in helping the families of Natchitoches during some of their most difficult times, and helping them prepare their final arrangements to lessen the grief for their families.
Dawn is very active in her church, teaching her little third graders in Sunday School and singing in the choir at Christmas time. She is a member of the Les Amies Service Organization and enjoys volunteering in the community. In her spare time, she enjoys spending time with her family, cooking and quilting. She is her daughter’s biggest fan in all of their pursuits.
Hunter was raised in Many, Louisiana, he graduated from Negreet High School in 2013. He then obtained an associate degree in applied sciences from Dallas institute of Funeral Service to practice Funeral Directing and Embalming.
In December of 2022, Hunter joined the staff of Blanchard-St. Denis Funeral Home. Through Hunter’s 10 years of service in the funeral industry he learned how much he loves helping families through the toughest time of their life. Hunter takes pride in treating each family he cares for like his own.
Hunter has two children, Anniston Kate and Lawson. In his spare time, he enjoys fishing, hunting, watching any kind of sport, but most of all spending time his children and family.
Tommy started his career with Blanchard St. Denis working part-time. He joined our funeral home full-time in 2011 after retiring from the United States Postal Service with 37 years of service.
Tommy is a lifelong resident of Natchitoches where he graduated from St. Mary’s High School in 1970. He furthered his education by receiving an associate degree from Northwestern State University.
He is married to Lisa McClellan. They have 4 children between them and are fondly known as Pepaw and Nana to 8 wonderful grandchildren. Tommy loves the game of golf and plays every chance he gets. He is also a wonderful cook and enjoys doing so for his family.
Tommy is passionate about caring for and seeing the needs of others. He takes pride in helping the people in his community during one of the most difficult times in their life.
Steve was born in Natchitoches and raised in Montgomery. When he graduated from high school, he attended NSU and studied mechanical arts.
He began his career with Gifford Hill and Company, a major construction supply company. While working full-time Steve attended the Shreveport Beauty Academy at night and received his license for makeup and hair styling. After 30 years he retired from Gifford Hill as Regional Manager for the Southwest region.
Steve began working for Blanchard St. Denis in 2012. His new endeavor with our firm gave him the opportunity to work in funeral service, a field he had always wanted to be a part of. Steve loves working side by side with the team at Blanchard St. Denis and helping families after the loss of a loved one.
Steve is married to Phyllis Kinkle Stroud, they have 3 wonderful daughters and 6 beautiful grandchildren.
Anthony lives in Natchitoches. He was born and reared on Cane River and went to school at St. Joseph Elementary and St. Matthew High School in Melrose.
He is married to Janet and they have 2 sons, 6 grandchildren and 3 great-grandchildren.
Anthony retired in 2006 from L&L Automotive which he co-owned with his brother. He then opened Anthony’s Auto, selling used cars. He also helps Janet with her catering business, Tatae’s. Anthony joined the team at Blanchard St. Denis in 2020.
Anthony Loves traveling with Janet, spending time with family and talking about cars with his sons and grandsons.
